Sunday, April 5, 2009

Belly Dancer and Gossip

I recently noticed that belly dancers do gossip a lot. Gossips can be a source of ideas as to what is in fashion and other stuff, it is not talking about someone else's business. If a piece of gossip about somebody is true, it can still be very hurtful. I have seen some friends get hurt from people gossiping about them and others and that is the main reason I tend to stay away from it. I don't like to hurt feelings or that.
If you are ever the victim of any horrible rumor and you hear them laughing and asking if it's true, walk up to those people, look them in the eye, and tell them that nothing happened. Don't try to explain. You'll just make it worse! Trust me! It takes a lot of tears, but in the end you'll feel stronger than ever.
The world is small and belly dance is a really small world. Belly dancers travel everywhere, they are on the net and they email. They know people and they are connected. So before you go running your mouth about something or someone, you might think about who else might hear about it. Because world is really small, You know?

1 comment:

  1. Gossip doesn't bad if happened to us sometimes even though we really hate to hear that :) Only thos ppl who jealous about us like to gossip on us ... is not the bad things, right ;p ? I always believe that Times & Gossips are the best friend ... They will help us to see who is right and who is wrong ... :)

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